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10 Really Great Ideas for Extra Kinky Sex

role playing sexThough no one knows who actually said the phrase live every day as though it was your last’, the fact of the matter is, it is not a bad idea. Over time, sex with the same person will inevitably become a little stale and will need something to give it a little fire again. If you want to breathe new life into your sex life, then its time to throw in a few kinky elements to help turn the notch up a little and get some real excitement back again.

Why Kinky Sex is good for Your Relationship

Kinky sex will certainly bring back the excitement that naturally drains out of having sex with the same person time and time again. More and more, research is showing the huge role that sex has in the everyday happiness in a couple’s relationship.  Sex plays a number of key roles, it reaffirms the affection that two people feel for each other, it helps to release built up the tension, and finally, it is physical exercise that has the effect of releasing dopamine in the brain, which makes the participants feel better.

The problem is that as the sex in a relationship becomes less exciting and less frequent, these benefits that it provides diminish also. That is why it is important to keep sex as exciting as possible and to engage in it frequently. There are loads of ways to keep sex exciting, you can do everything from role playing to threesomes, with kinky sex being the most widely accepted way of spicing up things in the bedroom.

So to give you an idea of the best kinky sex ideas check out our top 10 recommendations:

  1. Role-play

Preforming role-play is a really great way to put the passion back into sex. A role-play can be everything from wearing a nurse’s outfit to pretending to be someone else entirely. Some dedicated role-players even assume a different accent and behavior patterns to make it that more believable. Fans of the Austin Power’s movies will know that the title characters persona was actually developed by actor Mike Myers during his and his wife’s time in the bedroom.

  1. Watch Porn together

It might seem like an uncomfortable thought at first, but watching porn together is actually a great way to get the passion flowing again.  The main thing to make sure of before you begin is that you select the right kind of movie for you both to watch. Choosing a threesome video, for example, without asking your partner could ruin the mood as he or she might find this unappealing.

A really good option is to choose a soft porn movie that involves a couple and doesn’t deviate from so-called ‘normal’ sex, unless your partner desires otherwise. Also, try not to fixate on the movie all the time during sex as this might cause your partner to get jealous at first. The real key here to know your partner and what is best to get them excited.

  1. Try some new sex position

It might seem an odd addition to a list of kinky ideas, but amazingly, statistics show that this is one of the most overlooked kinky things that people overlook.  Many couples might find this strange given how much sex they have had over the years, but will be amazed at just how many fun and exciting sex positions there are to be tried. The karma sutra is the most famous book on sexual positions, but in recent years there have been loads of new books released that show the hundreds of sex positions that are possible. Get a book and start trying them out!

  1. Tired of the bedroom, try someplace different

The excitement that comes with having sex outside the bedroom can provide an enormous boost to your sex life. You might only need to go as far as the living room couch, but the options are endless. Having sex at the beach is a popular option, as is in the park, though you do need to take some precautions since in most public places it is illegal and therefore carries some pretty heavy risks if you get caught. But that’s half the fun of it to be honest.

  1. Use blindfold

Blindfolding your partner is another good way to add a little excitement to the bedroom. Blindfolding them and tying them up will let you completely take control of them. You should use this control to pleasure them in a range of ways to get them really wound up before sex. Great things to do,include using edible chocolate to please them or oiling them up and giving them an extra sensual massage.

  1. Play sex games

Sex games have become so widely accepted that you can buy them almost anywhere these days. Classic games like strip poker or truth and dare are well known, but there are a plethora of new and exciting games that will really get the excitement going when you need that added boost.

  1. Go oral crazy

kinky couple sexOral sex is and will always be one of the best ways to get anyone excited. Since oral sex is about one person giving and the other person receiving, it has an added value in a relationship. It is natural for the amount of oral sex preformed to decrease over time, so getting ‘oral crazy’ will definitely send your partners hormones through the roof. Better still, search for a few tips online on how to improve your oral skills so that you can really take them to heaven.

  1. Throw some sex toys into the mix

Many people, especially men are reluctant to use sex toys as they feel intimidated by them. Toys like vibrators and penis rings really can liven things up a lot. A vibrator, for example, can be used to get the woman to a state or extreme excitement before the guy enters to have sex. Many men won’t try one just for fear that they somehow will be relegated to second place, but this is just not the case.

  1. Try BDSM

In recent years, BDSM has become more and more popular. BDSM involves a role-play in which one person is dominant and the other is submissive. The dominate person uses a variety of sex toys and equipment in order to dominate the submissive one. BDSM can go as far as you are willing to take it but a good start is the scenario of the teacher and the naughty student. Despite people’s strong apprehension of BDSM, it is actually really exciting fun.

  1. If you are feeling brave, try a threesome

Not perhaps best for the average couple, a threesome is a really great way to explore new things and to take things in the bedroom to new heights. Having one is certainly a huge leap for any relationship but they are fun and an exciting way to make sex great again.

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